Category Archives: doctors
Why I hate well checkups?!
So, I’m sitting in Super Mighty Max’s pediatrician office as I write this. We are here for his 18 month well checkup. I get here, check in, and the receptionist hands me a questionaire to fill out. I take it and begin to fill it out.
I read through the first few questions and luckily there is a “Not Yet” column. The first questions were about his vision and hearing. The next set were about his fine and gross motor skills. I simply skim and just check “Not Yet”. Then we get to the questions above I looked at the headings for Problem solving and Personal-social and got upset. I felt like I was being punished for Super Mighty Max’s development. Trust me. I know I’m not. But to have to go through this process as if my child is a “typical” child is depressing. It makes me feel like it’s my fault and I’m not working hard enough for him to continue to develop these skills.
But we are working hard. He has physical therapy 4 x a month and occupational therapy twice a month. He is growing by leaps and bounds and I’m proud of the progress he has made. So, as the doctor comes in she starts to go through all of his specialists visits. I update her on his recent diet change and hospitalization. She then proceeds to look through the questionaire. I tell her I hated to fill out this questionaire every well visit. I tell her that it was torture for me to fill it out. She agreed that it wasn’t necessary, but wanted to make sure his early intervention services were addressing his development. We talk about his IEP/IFSP and what his physical and occupational therapists are working on.
We then discuss growth meaning height and weight. Super Mighty Max has grown 4″ in the last 6 months. But has actually lost weight. He currently weighs 23 lbs down from 26 lbs from his 12 month well check. Hopefully we will get some updates on feeding by mouth during his next gastrointestinal visit.
Stay Super, Make Mighty Moves, and Be Blessed!
Give Thanks in Everything?
Next Thursday, November 26 in the US we celebrate Thanksgiving, it is an annual celebration every 4th Thursday in November, where we gather with our families and commemorate the occasion by eating turkey and giving thanks to God for all of our blessings throughout the year. It is a time of gathering, fellowship, laughter, food, football, and love for many families. I have seen a trend on Social media during November where people are posting daily/weekly what they are thankful for. Can I be honest with you? It has been difficult for me to be thankful for all of Max’s special needs. I’ve mentioned in a post before how I questioned what does healthy look like. From crisis to crisis and hospitalization to doctor appointment I always questioned to God why and what did we do to have a child with so many medically complex needs. My social media friends and associates “what they are thankful for” posts make life seem so much easier and full of joy with their typical kids, and I want that normal life so much for Max.
1 Thessalonians 5:18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
In 1 Thessalonians 5:18 the bible says that in EVERYTHING give THANKS, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Now, if you have had a tough year like me, I know you are thinking how do I give thanks with everything I’m going through? How do I find peace within my storm? How do I say thank you to God for the many health, eating, gross and fine motor challenges my child has faced?